Alternative and Kinky Sex

Kinky sex is a little like spicy food, not everyone is in to it.  Everyone is turned on sexually in their own unique way.  It’s perfectly natural for many people to want to go beyond the typical sexual boundaries and let their inhibitions go in order to enhance their pleasures and explore their fantasies. The only problem is they may not have a willing partner (or partners) who want explore the same pleasures and fantasies. 

Still many partners may not feel uncomfortable and unwilling to try something new and kinky.  Often its "unchartered waters" and they may not know what to expect.  If you're trying to introduce your favorite kind of "kinky" sex or foreplay, take time to find out what your partner needs to feel comfortable and safe. 

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Chances are your fantasies and fetishes probably aren't that uncommon.  And many times communication between the partners can lead to a surprising common fantasy.  Otherwise slowly introduce the fantasy to your partner over time.  We all have sense of sexual adventure and if you approach it with patience you find your partner's willingness faster than you expected.  You may find the prudish person is quite willing to go along with some unusual ideas.

With a little encouragement and by giving your partner full control, you can get almost anyone interested in kinky sex. By clearly describing what you want and a little persuasion you just might be able to convince your partner into: playing with sex toys, handcuffs, spankings, anal sex, bondage, or role playing.  Obviously use of unwanted force is out of the question.  Be creative and playful with you fetish.  Make your partner beg for a spanking, or dress up like a cop or a nurse before your lover gets home from work.  This can make the fetish a two way street and both partners can become more involved.  Wouldn't you get turned on if your lover begged for anal sex, since she was a bad girl (now that's pretty kinky!)? 

If you have a hesitant partner make sure you try to make everything sound fun and be patient.  It could take days, weeks, or years - all depending upon what kind of partner you're with.  If you’re going to try role playing, shop together and discuss what would turn the other on. If you’re far more experienced at using sex toys than your lover, take the time to explain their function and all the pleasures that they will enjoy if they keep an open mind about it.  But be careful about it, some men get defensive when asked to share their partner with a big thick plastic penis. The most basic rule to remember about kinky sex:  Always be sensitive and mindful of your partner(s) and delightful pleasures will follow.

Here are some hard core ideas:

• Bondage Kit - Beginner's bondage fantasy
• Restraints - Bondage chair
• Premium Blindfold
• Bondage Kit - Engage
• Bondage Kit - Chains of pleasure kit